I have spent the last 3 days in a fully mind blowing, mentally exhausting, but very exciting seminar – virtually of course, (thanks to technology close to 700 of us all participating online and practising our social distancing).
It was a different way to do a 3 day seminar, but it worked and I feel like I got just as much out of it as a live event, despite the brain fade.
However…
On the last day, out of all the information that was thrown at us, there was one phrase that hit me hard, and very loud and clear:
If you don’t create time, you don’t have time to create your life – you are just a pawn in someone else’s life!
There are several reasons it hit me hard…
I look at all my clients running around with their busy lives, just trying to keep their heads above water between work, homeschooling, life in strange times, keeping up with everyone and everything etc.
Then I look at the people around me.
One person in particular comes to mind…
He has 3 goals in life:
1. His dream house
2. A particular boat
3. A family
Now what he doesn’t see is, he keeps himself so busy in his business, (as many people do), that he has no time to focus on his goals, or create the life he wants so badly.
He actually achieved one of those goals last year and then lost it this year, because he is all consumed by keeping busy.
What some people don’t realise is…
Business and Busyness can often be unconscious self-sabotage techniques.
Unless you start making time for yourself, you don’t have time to create the life you want; you don’t have time to dream, to plan your goals, to create your life map and design the life you want to lead.
This is something that is just as important for couples as it is for singles. Couples need to come together, after allowing each other the space to have time to dream their own dreams, and work out how they can combine their dreams, design a life together.
Afterall, you are choosing to do life together anyway – right?!
Now I’m not saying people aren’t busy, or businesses aren’t valid reasons we are sometimes stretched too far, but at the end of the day, we all have choices about how we lead our lives and what we focus on.
And…
If you can’t find 10-15 minutes in the day, to focus on creating your life, or spending time with the ones you love, then there is something seriously wrong!
If you need help with this, then please reach out to a professional – whether that is a psychologist, counsellor, NLP or EFT practitioner, hypnotherapist, whatever your choice is, it is a choice that will help you move forward and create the life you want.
And that is why I am here!
I am here to support you and help give you your time back…
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